It is socially acceptable for a man to date a younger woman. However, a woman dating a younger man gets a lot more attention and whispers. Does age really matter? No, it should not matter. Does it affect anyone else besides the two people in the relationship? No. Is there a law that states what gender can date a certain age of their significant other? No. Where is that memo? I must have missed it.
I have had guy friends in their late 30’s date ladies in their younger 20’s. I have many girl friends who will only date a certain age range older than them. I have some friends who date people younger than 21 years old. I have a rule for myself on that topic. They must be at least 21 years old to ride this ride. That is my own personal opinion for my ride. No judgment.
My ex boyfriend was seven years younger than me. Lord, let me tell you, the amount of buzzing I heard in my ear and he heard in his from all the nosey ass bees around the hive. I wish I collected money from everyone who shared their two cents or better yet told them where to shove it. The majority of it was about me being thirty. Thirty year old woman should be married or vying for the man of their dreams. I mean good god in heaven what do you mean she doesn’t want to get married?! I found it amusing how people reacted to a 30-year-old not racing for the altar. I was not dating Peter thinking he was “the one.” I was dating him because I was having fun. Lezbehonest, the stamina of man in his younger 20’s was like getting to open a Tiffany’s box with a white ribbon every day. I would be lying if I did not say that was a big part of why I wanted to claim him as my boyfriend. Peter was definitely hung. I mean he hung up my curtains well. Ha.
I will take credit for teaching him some tricks. Puppies can be trained unlike old dogs. We had a lot of fun in the sex department. Public places were always a good time. The one time we were staying at my parents place in Florida which was a 55 and over community. We decided to use the screened in patio as a fun romp. I was hoping to give someone a heart attack. I am kidding. Maybe. There was another time we christened his new truck. I felt like I was back in high school. I loved every minute of it. I will admit I may have fallen for Peter. That sometimes happens when you get dickmatized. I know I was in that trance. I am willing to bet every woman has been dickmatized at least one time in their life. Men can also get lost in Wonderland as they go deep down the rabbit hole. Men love those tight, deep, dark, wet holes in Wonderland.
There is no reason that an older woman cannot date a younger man. There is no age limit for a sexual appetite. If you can snag a young one, more power to you. Do not let society tell you who you can date. We all deserve a good, healthy sex life. Young or old, we can all be an energizer bunny. Get in where you fit in.
How did the fairy tale end? Peter and I only dated less than a year. It was fun playing in Never Never Land for a short time with him.