If you and your friend are both intoxicated, is it right to place blame on one of them for having sex without a condom?  Do broads carry around condoms in their purses at all times?  Should men always have a condom in their wallet?  I do have condoms in my nightstand drawer.  I do not carry one around with me.  I feel this is a give and take subject.  If you are having a lot of sex, you should carry protection with you to be prepared if the opportunity arises.  No pun intended.

I was hanging out and hooking up with Gavin one spring.  Gavin and I went out with our friends drinking one night.  We went to our buddy’s house for a late night hot tub after party.  I did not bring a suit.  I went in the hot tub in my g-string and bra.  It is close enough to a bikini.  All of us were pretty drunk after drinking more beer and spending time in the hot tub.  Gavin and I ended up hooking up in one of the bedrooms.  He was a good-looking guy.  I admired him even more without clothes on.  He had great muscles not to mention a nice washboard stomach.  We were both already in our under garments.  It did not take much to get fully naked.  We were going at it rough in the bed.  Gavin was pulling my hair hard and sucking my nipples even harder.  Sometimes drunk sex can be great sex. 

The next morning, my nipples were so sensitive.  He sucked my nipples raw.  That was some rough, hot sex.  My bra was still wet from the hot tub.  I decided to get dressed without my bra and underwear.  I stuffed my underwear in my pants pocket.  I was just going to have to carry my bra out in the open.  My one buddy drove us to our cars.  I got in my car to go home and realized I left my bra in my buddy’s backseat.  I figured I would get it off Gavin the next time I saw him.

A few nights later, I was in Gavin’s area drinking with my older guy friends, Austin and Adam.  I text messaged Gavin asking if I could swing by to get my bra or if he could meet me out.  He told me he did not have it anymore.  I had no clue what that meant.  I inquired further.  He told me he threw my bra away.  My response to him, “What in the hell did you do that for?!?!”  He said he was mad at me for letting us have sex without a condom.  Oh my god, was this real life.  I was relaying the conversation to Austin and Adam.  They were laughing hysterically.  I informed Gavin he threw away a Victoria’s Secret bra which was expensive.  He thought I was kidding.  I told him my bras cost me $52.  He felt like an asshole at that point.

A couple of days later, I received a check in the mail from Gavin for $52.  I had a good chuckle, but I appreciated the gesture.  It was the only black bra I owned, so I needed one to replace it.  That was the first and last time a guy threw one of my bras away.