I am “Tindered” out in little over a month. It is clear that online dating sites or applications are not for me. It was fun in the beginning. I was just scrolling through a stack of possible men. There 
were guys that were good looking, weird, assholes, creeps, and so on. You truly did not know what you were going to get with each swipe of your finger. Not as endearing as a box of chocolates.
The problem for me was meeting someone online creates a veil of possible spark. It seemed there could be interest there, but you were not completely sure since you hadn’t met them in person yet. You shared pictures and conversation. It seemed like there could be the ‘Zsa Zsa Zsu.’ It was actually ‘Zsa Zsa Ew.’ I only met three guys out for drinks the whole time I was on Tinder. The one I previously wrote about which was not a fit for me. The other one was very good looking and a nice guy, but there was no spark. The last guy, who asked not to be a part of this, turned out to be very cool. I wanted to be friends with him. It worked out well that way. None of them turned out to be real sparks though. Which is why I did not have sex with any of them.
The Tinder fairy tale book is closing for now. I didn’t want to delete the application just
in case I needed a laugh again. The notifications are turned off though. I will stick with the ‘ol fashioned way of meeting men while I am out and about. It suits me much better. I give a lot of credit to people who are on these sites really looking for someone because I got tired of it after a month. Good luck to all you crazy guys and broads looking for tail or love. I hope you all find your unicorns and white ponies! God speed.
creeps and assholes or the desperate, broad type of men looking for a lifelong partnership. Is there ever a happy medium? Do not get me wrong there is nothing wrong with men looking for a serious relationship. However, I do not think you should skip the small talk straight to the serious relationship talk. That is usually put off until the three month mark. I understand not wanting to beat around the bush, but it is a little much all at once in a first conversation. I know my brutal honesty has been taken as intimidating with some men. 
We also have the random married men on there. They have no shame in their game. This one in particular laid all his cards out on the table. He is probably more honest than most men with a ring. Or maybe his wife really doesn’t know. Who knows. It is still a gamble. I stand firm on the fact that his package picture is nothing appealing to me. I would much prefer a shirtless picture than that eggplant. Can you imagine if broads went around posting pictures of them in their underwear showing their camel toes? Lord, that is a disturbing image! Ew! 
as you see from the screenshot. He was a good sport about it. The ironic thing is how many guys do catfish and steal other men’s pictures for their own. I saw about four or five men posing to be Nick Bateman. That is the other problem with online sites. You have no idea if the person you are talking to really matches their pictures they have up on the site until you meet them in person. I do not know if you blame the superficial world we live in or the narcissistic assholes.
FONDLINGFAITH 