Fluffers are known as the guys who get male porn stars ready for the camera action. My definition is similar. Fluffers are people who get another person all amped up for play, but they never act on it. Fluffers are frustrating. What is the point in playing the fluffing game? Time is priceless. I do not care to waste my time talking about sexing someone if it is not going to happen. I would rather indulge in me time than fluff someone.
There are five guys that come to mind for me. One of the guys, we did heavy petting once at my place. It was so hot. However, he never ended up coming over again to cross the finishline. He told me that he regretted it after I moved away. A year and a half went by of texting and snap chatting with one another. I was back in town for one weekend. In typical fashion, he did not have any follow through for us. Why the fluff?
Three of the guys were here in Florida. It must be a common style in the sunshine state. Two out of the three of them nothing ever happened between us. There were many words used. Numerous attempts to try and meet up. Many promises of wanting to be naked. Do people get their rocks off by teasing and never doing anything? Teasing is all good and fun when you get that prize in the end. That would be like masterbating and then stopping right before you orgasm. ::blank stare::
After a month or so, I realized it was not worth my time. If I wanted to get myself excited, I would get my own orgasm. I do not need some guy trying to fluff me up and not get mine in the end. If I wanted to have fluff, I would eat it out of a jar.