If you do not plan on eating your fish for dinner, you would catch and release it. You can use this same idea for having sex. This type of sex is not for everyone. There are many people who are not comfortable with a one night stand or mid day rendezvous. I find it exciting to indulge in it every now and then. Different strokes for different folks.
I tend to go on Tinder when I’m bored to swipe through the men deck. I typically do not look at their details. It is for shits and giggles. Well, I matched with this 22-year-old. Lets call him Charlie Conway from the ‘Mighty Ducks.’ He was a good-looking guy. His beard made him look a little older. We exchanged a few messages. It was nothing serious. Charlie ending up messaging me the following day to find out what I was going to do for the day. I told him I was going to the beach with my friends. He mentioned that we should meet up. I dismissed the message and closed the application. I was looking forward to a day with my friends, soaking up some rays and throwing back some beers.
Jude and I walked up to the tiki bar on the beach to order some drinks. I noticed a guy sitting with a group on the other side of the bar. He looked familiar. Hmm. I opened Tinder on my phone to Charlie’s profile. I asked Jude if he thought the guy at the bar and on my phone was the same person. Jude thought if it wasn’t the same person then they must be related. I messaged him to confirm our thoughts. He wasn’t picking up that I was at the same place as him. I heard him say, “The chick from Tinder. She’s 32.”Come on now. I messaged him and said, “Stop shouting my age like a football score!” He looked shocked and told his buddies that I heard them. They all started looking around for me. I waved with a smile. I owned it. I walked over and talked to him.
I quickly learned that Charlie was in college, on the hockey team, and flying out later that evening to go home. This would be the perfect opportunity for a catch and release afternoon delight for me. Yes, it also would make me an official cougar since he was ten years younger than me. Ain’t no shame in my game. Him and his one teammate kept saying they needed a shower before heading to the airport. Jude knew what I was thinking without me saying anything. Jude signaled for me to go for it. It would make for a good story. I invited Charlie and his buddy back to my place for showers, beers and food. Charlie asked me to join him in the shower. I stripped down and jumped in there with him. We started in there and finished on my bed. It was pretty good minus the end. I told him to cum on my chest. He must not shoot the puck often on the ice because he shot wide right. I luckily sensed his poor aim and turned my head. Whew. I saved my hair. We got dressed then Charlie and his buddy left for their flight. My friends and I grilled out then watched a scary movie. It was a successful day.
What were the chances of running into Charlie that day. There are probably quite a few of you judging me. That is okay. You get to read about it because I lived in the moment. I did not think I would hear from him again since he lived in the northeast. I was wrong. Apparently, the younger men think they are entitled to receive pictures after they have sex with you. They also do not understand that most people do not have a catalogue of naked pictures saved on their phone to send out on a whim. It is quite comical. I did save the best part for last. You may think I came up with his character name due to him being younger and playing hockey. That contributed to it, but he had a tattoo of the ‘Mighty Ducks’ on his ass. Charlie definitely worked the flying V angle.
There are a lot of younger 20 something guys on Tinder who like themselves an older broad. I ain’t hating because I’m the older broad. My last ex boyfriend was seven years younger than me. A lot of people had something to say about it. What is that one saying, “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks?” That may be very true, but you can train a puppy with treats and a newspaper. I’m just saying. This cougar has claws now. Watch out little young pups. ::wink wink::
One of the young studs asked for my snapchat name. I obliged with his request. He sends me a lot of shirtless pictures. I ain’t mad about it. He is studying to become a firefighter. We all know how I love a guy in uniform who knows how to use a hose.
Day 6 happened to fall on Valentines Day. I usually loathe that day for many reasons even when I have been in a relationship. This year was different. I had friends over my house to play corn hole and beer pong. I was telling my buddies about my Tinder experiences. Arthur came up. My guy friends were not keen on the fact that he was in law enforcement. Some of us may or may not partake in illegal activities.::smiles with halo over head::
I spent a little more time with Arthur. I was still on the fence with how I felt about him. There was something holding me back from doing anything with him besides giving a hug. I wanted to figure out what that something was before I went any further with him.
It is socially acceptable for a man to date a younger woman. However, a woman dating a younger man gets a lot more attention and whispers. Does age really matter?No, it should not matter.Does it affect anyone else besides the two people in the relationship? No. Is there a law that states what gender can date a certain age of their significant other? No. Where is that memo? I must have missed it.
I have had guy friends in their late 30’s date ladies in their younger 20’s. I have many girl friends who will only date a certain age range older than them. I have some friends who date people younger than 21 years old. I have a rule for myself on that topic. They must be at least 21 years old to ride this ride. That is my own personal opinion for my ride. No judgment.
My ex boyfriend was seven years younger than me. Lord, let me tell you, the amount of buzzing I heard in my ear and he heard in his from all the nosey ass bees around the hive. I wish I collected money from everyone who shared their two cents or better yet told them where to shove it. The majority of it was about me being thirty. Thirty year old woman should be married or vying for the man of their dreams. I mean good god in heaven what do you mean she doesn’t want to get married?! I found it amusing how people reacted to a 30-year-old not racing for the altar. I was not dating Peter thinking he was “the one.” I was dating him because I was having fun. Lezbehonest, the stamina of man in his younger 20’s was like getting to open a Tiffany’s box with a white ribbon every day. I would be lying if I did not say that was a big part of why I wanted to claim him as my boyfriend. Peter was definitely hung. I mean he hung up my curtains well. Ha.
I will take credit for teaching him some tricks. Puppies can be trained unlike old dogs. We had a lot of fun in the sex department. Public places were always a good time. The one time we were staying at my parents place in Florida which was a 55 and over community. We decided to use the screened in patio as a fun romp. I was hoping to give someone a heart attack. I am kidding. Maybe. There was another time we christened his new truck. I felt like I was back in high school. I loved every minute of it. I will admit I may have fallen for Peter. That sometimes happens when you get dickmatized. I know I was in that trance. I am willing to bet every woman has been dickmatized at least one time in their life. Men can also get lost in Wonderland as they go deep down the rabbit hole. Men love those tight, deep, dark, wet holes in Wonderland.
There is no reason that an older woman cannot date a younger man. There is no age limit for a sexual appetite. If you can snag a young one, more power to you. Do not let society tell you who you can date. We all deserve a good, healthy sex life. Young or old, we can all be an energizer bunny. Get in where you fit in.
How did the fairy tale end?Peter and I only dated less than a year. It was fun playing in Never Never Land for a short time with him.