A lot of these guys must be on Tinder late night style because I wake up to messages a lot. This broad is asleep by 10:00 pm at the latest during the work week. I cannot function on little to no sleep like I used to in my younger 20’s. The one creep somehow still was not annoyed by my responses and thought I did not get the concept of flirting or being sexy. HaHa. It was more fun being sarcastic and an asshole than coming out and telling him that I couldn’t take him seriously with the hand comments.
Arthur, one of the guys I gave my number to, asked me to grab a drink after work with him. I was a little apprehensive since my friends were telling me to take my taser with me. I guess there are too many stories in the news of messed up situations. I agreed to meet up with him. My one friend Melissa was tracking me via the friend finder app on iPhone’s. Ha. I do not want my mom knowing about that app. At the age of 32, she would be tracking me all day, every day.
The meet and drink went surprisingly well. I hate those kind of things too. It is almost like a date. Dating is so nerve racking to me. It reminds me of Vince Vaughn in ‘Wedding Crashers.’ His explanation of dating is how I feel about it. After two beers, I felt a little more relaxed. Arthur reminded me a lot of Jaxon. He truly was a normal guy. He had a past to share like we all do. It was good conversation. I let him do the majority of the talking which was nice. I hate feeling like I am talking just to avoid awkward silence. Arthur walked me to my car like a gentleman. We hugged and went on our separate ways.
Arthur is a very good looking guy and seems really nice. I am open to getting to know him more as a person. I am just unsure if it’s as a friend or more than. I will always have reservations especially because I do not want to waste someone else’s time or mine. Maybe the answer is in a kiss. The only way to tell if there is potential chemistry. I always think of my friend’s quote, “It’s all in the kiss. If you don’t get a good kiss, you ain’t getting a good dick.”